Why Men are to blame for the rise in the feminist movement

I know that there is a history with the feminist movement and I am not about to associate myself with it. I understand a man's role and his purpose.When I make the statement that men are to blame for the rise in the feminist movement-I simply mean that men are the ones who have convinced us that we are better off without them.

A man has a definite purpose in this world.He was given right and authority over many things. Men were given responsibility and held to a superior pedestal. They were suppose to embody strength and decisiveness amongst other positive attributes however men are the ones convincing women that they are better off without them.

I have said this statement twice,I am not sure if you have realized.

I have truly found myself questioning,what it profits a woman to align herself with a man who does not embody what he was set out to be. I know that there is good and bad to everyone and that no one is perfect.I understand that but in the face of the culmination of his characteristics, both good and bad,he merely falls below average. 

I'm not even sure most men these days understand the authority they were given. They have associated it with power and belittling females, perpetuating terms like "Main Bitch", "hoe", "THOT"..which really isn't a word perhaps but rather an acronym for "that hoe over there" and I'm sure many idiots,sorry to say, have gone on saying it not even really knowing what it means. Our men have given up their crowns and bowed down as slaves to the negatives of American culture,prizing their trash and presenting it like our first class. Its like the whole first world-third world phenomenon. Their trash is out treasure.

Women were crafted with a tremendous amount of power themselves. In some senses we have been referred to as the "help-maid". Pay attention to this, at times,if not most, a help maid is of great significance to a household. A help maid may know how to complete a task better than the owner of the house. A help maid is needed by the owner of the home to make the owner's life easier. The help maid however does not need the owners help, as the help maid is more than capable of doing it all herself. Mind you, the help maid would need the financial compensation for her labour and the respect due for the humbling work she does.

This of course is to say that, that woman can to it all- start to finish. Yes, they can. However, men fall into the equation because women have needs. I do not mean this from a sexual standpoint at all. Women have loose emotional soil that can only be tilled by a man. We are fully capable of surving physically without a man however emotionally, some women are more dependent than others.

Men are making it hard for themselves. Men make no bones about loving women, but this so called love seems more an appreciation for the vagina than the surrounding flesh, which is the woman herself.

If you are given authority- You have a responsibility. From the moment women realized that they could, by the sweat of their brow, raise children to an independent stage-they became more empowered and less needy. More bitter but less impressed by men.

From the time a woman realized the extent a man would go to keep up multiple relationships. They stopped being as emotionally invested in men. Some flew of their hinges, using men as men in turn have used them. Men get mad because they figure women just want their money and other material possessions however, a woman who truly loves you only wants one thing from you in the beginning-and that's your love. Once she has that, you two can craft a world together and see how you can better your financial status.

Some men have not given women a reason to submit to them. The web of lies is terribly distasteful and don't be fooled men- women know. Some know and pretend they don't and some don't know yet. Other are busy ignoring the signs about you and your shadiness because their egos won't allow them to admit that they have invested their time in a loser.

Our resourcefulness can truly be a downfall. We want to make pies out of mud instead of throwing it out the window.

I know that I have tap-danced over the toes of some men but please understand where I am coming from as a young woman stumbling upon these revelations.

It is difficult to operate in love and appreciation of someone who does not function the same with you. These years of mindless adoration of men are dead and gone. You want love and appreciation??  Where is your emotional availability? Are you concerned about the welfare of your companion or do you leave her girlfriends to do all the work? Do you believe that you can block each hole you have created by thrusting your hand in your pockets and buying gifts?

A woman of substance values your treatment than all else in the relationship. It is how you treat her that will convince her to stay when things get rough. Some people look at odd couplings and wonder why they are together.They look so strange. They do not look compatible but they are!

I look around and I do know great men. Some do not fit into that category that I have just mercilessly lambasted ( haha!) so all you guys out their huffing and puffing and un-subscribing can take a chill pill. The purpose here is to raise men from their knees and and show them that we women do believe in them and we are willing to submit our lives and forego our precious last names. We are willing to forego our stellar & youthful bodies to carry their children (if we have the maternal instinct). We strong women are willing to submit...but only to someone worthy. Only to a MAN.

It is as simple as giving a woman REASONS to trust you.

She needs to trust that you will be honest.

She needs to trust that you will be faithful.

She needs to trust that you will not walk out on your family.

She needs to trust YOU.

It is as simple as this. If you had a daughter, would you  even want her to be affiliated with the guy you are right now?

If you don't, then that's your answer as to why women don't  want you, can't stand you or would rather be alone than be with you.

Sorry to be cold.

Its a cold world.

Here's a blanket and a tissue.

Hope I addressed your issue.

Soulfully Stella. 

Ta Ta!:)