Hey guys!
Today,we're going to address all the possible reasons some guys don't have a girlfriend.I'm also going to rope in why its so hard for some guys to get one.Some guys couldn't be bothered by their single status.They revel in their freedom and ability to chat every pair of hot legs in hot shorts that walks by.Some guys, on the other hand are feeling very lonely being alone.The company of their male friends just can't suffice anymore,after all-I guess,a man can't keep a straight man warm at night
.So,considering that my eyes have identified the realness of the struggle.Here I am,to save the day.
1.You probably don't have a girlfriend right now,because you probably just got out of a relationship.You had a lady a couple days,weeks or about a year ago and you really need to get your head together without anymore female static getting in the way of your game,dreams and goals.
2.You probably don't have a girlfriend because you've been black listed.Females walk in packs.She may be best of friends with a girl you've never even seen her hang out with, and that female reports to her,that you're a skanky mess when you're not trying to hit her up on whatsapp,take her out and get her to think that you only have eyes for her. Truth is,many guys flirt and the key to their game is to be a modern day romeo to each chick and make sure that she doesn't know about the "others".Sad to say guys, most girls know and those who don't eventually find out.Once that's out of the bag-every female after that is probably going to make your life hard.She is going to question everything you say-down to if your name is your real name and if that's really how you spell your name to where you've been ,why you didn't return her calls and all that nagging jazz. So essentially, you don't have a girlfriend,because you're played out.
3.You're immature.
You don't have a woman in your life because you're not(YET)a man.Girls are for boys and women are for men. If you're still unaware of what to say to a woman and how to behave(i.e be respectful,open the door n shit) then getting the ladies will be pretty hard.Most of the women worth keeping around are futuristic thinkers.They are not moved by your struggle and inability to afford a new pair of expensive sneakers or your being sad about being broke with no plan to change your circumstance.Immature men are initially intrigued by such women but can't seem to sustain a relationship or even get into a relationship with them to begin with.Until you man-up and be responsible getting a lady or getting the ladies to notice you will be hard.
4.You have poor personal hygiene.
Yes! personality is key.So is the fresh scent of Old Spice or some great manly musk scent that I don't know the name of. A lot of relationships start online these days.Thing is,you can't smell people through your screen or over the phone.She is only given a fair chance at liking you if you present yourself in the best way possible. I've had an experience once where the smell of someone's breath was enough to bring me to my knees-my eyes watered-LITERALLY.Now,though he wasn't trying to chat me up or anything, we could but only imagine my shock at his audacity if he did. Guys,its easy to stink. We live in the Caribbean, the sun is blazing more often than not and the struggle with WASCO (thats our water company in St.Lucia by the way)is very real.I get it,but its no excuse.Carry mints,Brush and floss your teeth and ensure that you smell clean and fresh,especially in the presence of women.
Did you know that fragrances were designed to attract the opposite sex.Women are attracted to those earthy mist things you guys spray on and likewise men to our perfumes,body mists and scented body butters.
5.You are unattractive.
Hey.I'm not trying to be mean-just honest. This doesn't mean that you're ugly,though it could be a possibility( i mean,after all,beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if the person beholding you thinks your "meh" then you know..*awkward* moving on :D.It could be that your personality needs some work! Looks become unimportant when you fall in love with someone's personality. I will repeat that. LOOKS BECOME UNIMPORTANT ONCE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE'S PERSONALITY.
Many persons have struggled to wrap their minds around the phenomenon of how such a beautiful girl could be with such a...not so beautiful guy.If you ask these women, I'm almost certain that they would say something about how great the guy treats them or how kind and sweet and great he is.
6.You're Cheap/Chronic Moocher.
Everything comes at a cost. Having a partner costs money as well. A relationship isn't suppose to drag you to the poor house -NO. Its just being in a relationship requires additional funds.Gas money/bus money, "get her something special to show her you care" money,money to go out with her.Point is-it costs money and that could be why you don't have one.AND THAT IS FINE. The fact that you're conscious of your financial situation is commendable. It also show that you intend to enjoy the finer things when you do get your lady.Money shouldn't matter in a relationship by the way but life is easy when you don't have to rack your brains over money,just trying to have some fun.
If you mooch,i.e constantly require a woman to pay for everything,you become more of a liability than anything else,especially if you don't make her very very happy.You want to be her boyfriend,not another one of her bills.
7.It is also possible that you haven't matched up with someone because you are yet to meet your match,be it physically,intellectually,spiritually or any other "..ally" you can think of.
8.Its also possible that you're in love with someone.You may still be in love with your ex-girlfriend or maybe you love one of your close female friends.Now, you may be in denial but the sub conscious has a way of revealing our inner most desires.So though you may say you want a girlfriend,if your mind has registered that you unofficially have someone in mind-then you will behave in a way that will push all potential,official girls away.
There is nothing wrong with being single by the way but I do understand if for whatever reason you feel like your clock is ticking and you would really like some companionship. Love in any form is a special and deeply spiritual connection.I would advise that you take it to the Lord in prayer. She's on her way.Whilst she's is,ensure that you're refining yourself,to be the best man to receive the woman of your dreams.
Soulfully
Lady Cupid
Today,we're going to address all the possible reasons some guys don't have a girlfriend.I'm also going to rope in why its so hard for some guys to get one.Some guys couldn't be bothered by their single status.They revel in their freedom and ability to chat every pair of hot legs in hot shorts that walks by.Some guys, on the other hand are feeling very lonely being alone.The company of their male friends just can't suffice anymore,after all-I guess,a man can't keep a straight man warm at night
.So,considering that my eyes have identified the realness of the struggle.Here I am,to save the day.
1.You probably don't have a girlfriend right now,because you probably just got out of a relationship.You had a lady a couple days,weeks or about a year ago and you really need to get your head together without anymore female static getting in the way of your game,dreams and goals.
2.You probably don't have a girlfriend because you've been black listed.Females walk in packs.She may be best of friends with a girl you've never even seen her hang out with, and that female reports to her,that you're a skanky mess when you're not trying to hit her up on whatsapp,take her out and get her to think that you only have eyes for her. Truth is,many guys flirt and the key to their game is to be a modern day romeo to each chick and make sure that she doesn't know about the "others".Sad to say guys, most girls know and those who don't eventually find out.Once that's out of the bag-every female after that is probably going to make your life hard.She is going to question everything you say-down to if your name is your real name and if that's really how you spell your name to where you've been ,why you didn't return her calls and all that nagging jazz. So essentially, you don't have a girlfriend,because you're played out.
3.You're immature.
You don't have a woman in your life because you're not(YET)a man.Girls are for boys and women are for men. If you're still unaware of what to say to a woman and how to behave(i.e be respectful,open the door n shit) then getting the ladies will be pretty hard.Most of the women worth keeping around are futuristic thinkers.They are not moved by your struggle and inability to afford a new pair of expensive sneakers or your being sad about being broke with no plan to change your circumstance.Immature men are initially intrigued by such women but can't seem to sustain a relationship or even get into a relationship with them to begin with.Until you man-up and be responsible getting a lady or getting the ladies to notice you will be hard.
4.You have poor personal hygiene.
Yes! personality is key.So is the fresh scent of Old Spice or some great manly musk scent that I don't know the name of. A lot of relationships start online these days.Thing is,you can't smell people through your screen or over the phone.She is only given a fair chance at liking you if you present yourself in the best way possible. I've had an experience once where the smell of someone's breath was enough to bring me to my knees-my eyes watered-LITERALLY.Now,though he wasn't trying to chat me up or anything, we could but only imagine my shock at his audacity if he did. Guys,its easy to stink. We live in the Caribbean, the sun is blazing more often than not and the struggle with WASCO (thats our water company in St.Lucia by the way)is very real.I get it,but its no excuse.Carry mints,Brush and floss your teeth and ensure that you smell clean and fresh,especially in the presence of women.
Did you know that fragrances were designed to attract the opposite sex.Women are attracted to those earthy mist things you guys spray on and likewise men to our perfumes,body mists and scented body butters.
5.You are unattractive.
Hey.I'm not trying to be mean-just honest. This doesn't mean that you're ugly,though it could be a possibility( i mean,after all,beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if the person beholding you thinks your "meh" then you know..*awkward* moving on :D.It could be that your personality needs some work! Looks become unimportant when you fall in love with someone's personality. I will repeat that. LOOKS BECOME UNIMPORTANT ONCE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE'S PERSONALITY.
Many persons have struggled to wrap their minds around the phenomenon of how such a beautiful girl could be with such a...not so beautiful guy.If you ask these women, I'm almost certain that they would say something about how great the guy treats them or how kind and sweet and great he is.
6.You're Cheap/Chronic Moocher.
Everything comes at a cost. Having a partner costs money as well. A relationship isn't suppose to drag you to the poor house -NO. Its just being in a relationship requires additional funds.Gas money/bus money, "get her something special to show her you care" money,money to go out with her.Point is-it costs money and that could be why you don't have one.AND THAT IS FINE. The fact that you're conscious of your financial situation is commendable. It also show that you intend to enjoy the finer things when you do get your lady.Money shouldn't matter in a relationship by the way but life is easy when you don't have to rack your brains over money,just trying to have some fun.
If you mooch,i.e constantly require a woman to pay for everything,you become more of a liability than anything else,especially if you don't make her very very happy.You want to be her boyfriend,not another one of her bills.
7.It is also possible that you haven't matched up with someone because you are yet to meet your match,be it physically,intellectually,spiritually or any other "..ally" you can think of.
8.Its also possible that you're in love with someone.You may still be in love with your ex-girlfriend or maybe you love one of your close female friends.Now, you may be in denial but the sub conscious has a way of revealing our inner most desires.So though you may say you want a girlfriend,if your mind has registered that you unofficially have someone in mind-then you will behave in a way that will push all potential,official girls away.
There is nothing wrong with being single by the way but I do understand if for whatever reason you feel like your clock is ticking and you would really like some companionship. Love in any form is a special and deeply spiritual connection.I would advise that you take it to the Lord in prayer. She's on her way.Whilst she's is,ensure that you're refining yourself,to be the best man to receive the woman of your dreams.
Soulfully
Lady Cupid
9. You lack AMBITION....it's so unattractive
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