Why most women go for older guys

NOTE: I am not referring to elderly men but rather guys who are not in a female's immediate age group.

There will be no preamble here.Straight and to the point.Why? because women do have a tendency to go for older guys and most guys would like to know why.

1.Its very traditional.
Much like a woman pairing up with a guy taller than herself,a guy who is older, as illogical as it may sound is as traditional a value,whether we want to believe it or not.Its just something that has been perpetuated over the years that is very comforting for most women-so hey,why change it.

2.Maturity
This is a big one! and key factor . "Experience costs you wisdom",I think that's how the saying goes. Some,if not most older guys are preoccupied with more important goals as oppose to their younger kind which may find themselves absorbed into playing games and engaging in fruitless endeavours.Older guys do not have a tendency to prolong arguments-they are quick to lay the cards on the table and move on once the problem is resolved. They also respect relationship intimacy which is important to any female.You just don't find many older guys running to the mountain tops,shouting to the multitude of gossip hungry people ,what happened between you guys last night.

3.Security
Older guys seem to have a greater sense of direction.Perhaps,this is as a result of them stumbling upon realizations like their time is really running out. The older men get and the more involved they are achieving their dreams,the more particular they become about  great investments. They are looking for security and in turn embody what they look for and the reality is that women love security in relationships. Its the best thing since sliced bread.

4.Financially Set
Some women love the idea of a man who can take care of them or at least a man who doesn't embody "money worries". A man who has worked right thus far in life or is merely financially responsible is more appealing than a man who is not. Most times,unless you're born with the silver spoon, you would have to work a couple days in your life to be financially set.Therefore age just happens to coincide with this factor.
5. Appreciation
Older guys are very appreciative of youth  as it does. They are flattered by any actions that may hint that "they still got it".This ego boost makes older guys very subservient to the whims and fancies of their younger love interests, especially if she in extraordinarily beautiful. Women in turn enjoy the flattery of being pampered by someone who truly seems to be captivated by them.
I apologize if this post was too brief to whet your appetite but shorter reads have been requested and well,I'm trying appease everyone.Feel free to comment if you don't agree or do add reasons in the comments section if you would like to.

Soulfully Yours :)

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