Nothing consumes more of a woman's time (when she is in love, that is) than trying to determine what is going on in a guy's head and how he feels about her. We struggle! Yes,men are simple and we're told they do not over think. Men are either yes or no,left or right and waste no time in between-in other words,Men just don't bother about the things we women tend to.
So how in the blazes are we suppose to know whether a guy has the hots for us or not.It has become really difficult to figure out,especially when so many guys make sure the step into their sheep's clothing before they pounce and rip our poor beating heart to shreds.
Tun tun na na!!*Stella to the rescue*
After speaking to some guys and stumbling upon on my own realizations after oogling some love birds, Here are 10 heart saving tips to figure out whether he loves you ..or loves you NOT.
1.A guy who likes you is attentive. He pays specially attention to what you say because he genuinely wants to get to know you better in hopes of standing a chance.
2.He tries to make you laugh. A guy who likes you wants you to feel good. Its an ego boost knowing that evoke happy emotions from you by talking or goofing off.
3.He remembers you. A guy who likes you doesn't forget the particulars about you easily.He's attentive to detail like I said in point one and because of that-he might find himself picking up stuff that he remembered that you like when he's out,perhaps running errands or something.
4.He's concerned about your safety. He's sure to drop you home or ensure that you get there safely after any outing together.It could be that he's just being a perfect gentleman but that doesn't take away from the fact that ,that behaviour is indicative of someone who cares.
I realize that the first four tips speak of like but a guy who loves you ensures that he does those things as wel.
This next tip is a little complex.
5. He ensures transparency in relations with you. He is straight up.HOWEVER,it is important to note that quite a couple of guys can attest to keeping the truth away from us ladies because of how strongly they feel. I know it doesn't sound logical to us but that's what the guys say ladies. Some guys share the sentiments that we as ladies want the truth but can't handle it and so some guys withhold information concerning their pasts because they admit to liking women whom,if they told the truth,might not stand a chance with.
6.Another indicator or a guy who loves you is "introduction". He wants to show you off to the people who matter to him.He introduces you to his friends and family with the relevant title.A man who loves you wants to take you to "Momma" and considering that most decent males hold their mothers in high regard-that's a great sign.
7.He makes plans for the two of you and is constantly trying to keep things interesting between you guys.He wants to pencil you into his day because you matter to him.
8.He makes it clear where his interests lie. If he is charismatic,other females will be drawn to him but because he is in pursuit of your heart,he will try to shield the blossoming romance that you two share from the snares of other beastly,destructive women.
9.A man who loves you is sensitive to your needs. His attraction to you leads him to want to complement you(I don't mean compliment as in "to flatter"). He wants to be what you need,he wants to be your other half.There longs to be there and fulfill in as many ways as he possibly can.
10.A man who loves you embodies love. He behaves in the ways that he believes will keep you interested because he sees you in his future. He speaks of the plans he has for the two of you.Words ,of course are null and void without action so you must also see his words manifest so you can be sure but when a man cares he feel responsible for you and does right by you. He is particularly concerned about your WHOLISTIC well being because he hopes to have his life and your intertwined and its only fair for him to want to share his spirit with someone who is well,safe and secure.
Soulfully:)
10.A man who loves you embodies love. He behaves in the ways that he believes will keep you interested because he sees you in his future. He speaks of the plans he has for the two of you.Words ,of course are null and void without action so you must also see his words manifest so you can be sure but when a man cares he feel responsible for you and does right by you. He is particularly concerned about your WHOLISTIC well being because he hopes to have his life and your intertwined and its only fair for him to want to share his spirit with someone who is well,safe and secure.
Soulfully:)
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