Girl Zone- What girls think about guys who play games.

..So, much to my disappointment- I just chewed at my polished nails,leaving them a  butchered mess all because I'm getting nerves over this topic.

I've been told many times over that girls are complex and impossible to understand. That may be true  but I think guys need to understand certain things about chicks and how difficult they,as guys are to understand.

What I'm about to say isn't a mere reflection of just my experience but the sentiments of other females as well. I once had the pleasure of meeting someone who left me completely awestruck. Yes-I admit. This person seemed  to possess the characteristics of what I deemed to be the ideal guy..for me anyway. I would list his great attributes but I'm not trying to identify anyone here-I'm just saying. Simply put,this guy had it going on.I was blown away,not simply by his fabulous good looks but because of the confidence he possessed which caused him to walk across and over to me. This guy delivered an impeccable presentation of himself. He was someone, anyone I suppose would like to get to know. Essentially, I admired and He admired. We both were attracted to the opposite party.Nothing crazy,just this initial attraction of "I need to know who you are".He apparently was moved enough to walk over and present himself after giving me this long soul piercing stare down. Long story short-This guy wasn't serious enough. He constantly bailed on plans he made and seemed way to evasive for someone who initially indicated interest. I felt hurt,disappointed and a bit insignificant to be honest. More than anything I felt disrespected- I know I'm an awesome and worthwhile person,so I was thinking,how dare that idiot play games.

Here are the opinions of others females and what they think about guys and the games that some of them play;

Please note that some names have been changed for confidentiality purposes.

"Well personally I try my best not to play games, and I would prefer if guys were straight up with me as well. I want a straight up and honest relationship, so if I sense a guy is playing any type of games with me, I feel skeptical and disinterested, because authenticity is really important to me in a relationship. I prefer to get the truth sooner rather than later and not to be led on in any way. That said, I understand that people get led on from time to time, and sometimes it's not even intentional so I try to set boundaries for myself in an effort to protect myself from these things because in the end I am responsible for myself and my own feelings"- Xanaan,age 23

"I think its childish for one.. it just shows how not in tune they are with their inner beings cause if they were.. they wouldn't feel the need to treat a female that way for some attention.. its egotistic..And they probably have some kinda mental issues tbh..Like
I think they craveeee to be loved and treated right but they just wanna put up a facade
I think all assholes r like that..They truly want love deep down inside
Who knows how many nights they cry themselves to sleep lmaoooo
Or maybe its just emotional detachment
Which comes to the same thing. . Like they're outta tune with who they r and what they want"- Kay A,age 19

 "Well it never happened to me but , I know someone it happened to ...but I can put myself in the person shoes, I think when guys do that they trigger paranoia in a female's brain, n like she would always be expecting negative over a period of time.also she would have a trusting issue and future guys would pay for the previous guy's mistake.I think those guys who play those games have something to prove to their friends , or like sum sorta self fulfilling prophecy..Tryna live up to sum"- Stephanie,age 19

"Hmm guys playing games with girls .. Let's be honest, sometimes when we think our "guy" is playing games he isn't .. Yes I am a little crazy maybe a little too crazy to be a girl and taking the side of a guy. I have met some honest male friends in my life. I'm of the opinion that some times we as girls ladies women encourage our significant other to play games... Maybe because of our personal experiences. I know. Because I am guilty of it myself being raised in a home with married parents who are currently separated .For a point in my life I felt that all men are the same .. So what's the point of putting my trust my all into a relationship when he's going to play games like me daddy did ..and perhaps still doing. We need to give the guys a chance to love us. Females, know yourself love yourself it's that simple. A guy does not have to show you how much you're worth. However .. As I continue to be honest here when ever I feel played by a guy I take it as an opportunity to be "hard core" you wanna play games?Let's have some fun .. I'm not answering your calls, not replying to your messages, I'm playing hide and seek you're not going to find me .. Maybe you'll never find me as long as u live. Yes Sir, you are Forgiven.. but that's as fair as the game can ever get you are also Forgotten!"-Jenny ,20

 "I think its selfish on a guys part. They will keep stringing you around to emotionally gratify themselves without thinking about the consequences because they can only think about themselves.Sometimes I think it's all for attention"-NiNi, 20

"Hey so I think that guys should b more straightforward with their intentions..Because studies show girls are just as capable of having flings or friends with benefits or one night stands as guys are. So if that's what they want they should be frank with it. Instead of wiggling their way into our hearts and making us fall far and hard for them."-Danielle,17

I hope this was insightful...
Keep posted for an upcoming "Boy Zone" Topic

Soulfully Yours