Sooo...Yup!
Love is on the table tonight-Let's talk.
What I'm about to share with you is in reference to the cliche' "there are more fish in the sea"..
Undeniably,many people are fishing-Deep sea,live bait,spearing,dynamite,you name it. Lots of persons around the world are engaging in radical strategies to find love. They have cast the net into the water and are praying for a good catch. Some people are like this....
Have you ever stopped to wonder,why its taking so long for someone worth while to step into your life?
Keep this in mind and this is something I ALWAYS say to myself
Now...onto the reason you're really here.
Don't go airing all your dirty laundry before your friends and acquaintances,seeking their approval for every single decision you make in your love life. Yes, you want to talk to your friends and that's fine but leaving your partner in the dark about the issues you have with him or her and confiding in others does nothing to resolve the issue. For the most part it compounds the problem-because at that time you've already had persons to agree and affirm the frustrations you have with your partner which could have been easily resolved had you two just talked.
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You need to give someone a chance to prove their love. Don't speak and assume the worst into your relationship before it even happens,for in you having thought it,you have already called it into existence.
Trust.Trust.Trust. By not trusting,you push your partner into the arms of what you're trying to nag them out of. If you get what I mean.
5. Stealing your partner's birthright of " Individuality"
The person you fell in love with was bred out of certain circumstances that, prior to your arrival,you were obviously,not a part of...(after all..you weren't there yet).Maybe you came in and had this whole "superhuman-Chris Brown ft Keri Hilson" effect. Maybe you "changed their whole life" for the better.That doesn't give you the right though to stifle your partner. Respect your person's space. Not wanting to spend every waking moment with you isn't a sign of "not loving you". It just means that this person would like some time to "marinate in their own juices"..Sometimes,your person just needs a little time to remember why they love you so much.
So, YUP.
Five of the biggest boo-boos People in Relationships make.I hope you enjoyed.
Soulfully x
Love is on the table tonight-Let's talk.
What I'm about to share with you is in reference to the cliche' "there are more fish in the sea"..
Undeniably,many people are fishing-Deep sea,live bait,spearing,dynamite,you name it. Lots of persons around the world are engaging in radical strategies to find love. They have cast the net into the water and are praying for a good catch. Some people are like this....
Have you ever stopped to wonder,why its taking so long for someone worth while to step into your life?
Keep this in mind and this is something I ALWAYS say to myself
" What you think about you bring about"Are you exuding similar characteristics to the person you want to attract??? ..
Now...onto the reason you're really here.
Five Stupid Mistakes People in relationships Make.
1. If something is the matter-tell your partner.
Don't go airing all your dirty laundry before your friends and acquaintances,seeking their approval for every single decision you make in your love life. Yes, you want to talk to your friends and that's fine but leaving your partner in the dark about the issues you have with him or her and confiding in others does nothing to resolve the issue. For the most part it compounds the problem-because at that time you've already had persons to agree and affirm the frustrations you have with your partner which could have been easily resolved had you two just talked.
2. Losing that initial spark.
That tendency to get tired,lazy and ungrateful is the reason so many relationships fail. Losing sight of how bad we wanted this person at first and how far we would go to get this person to notice us makes us complacent.The little things that you did to get your person are more than likely to be the things that will keep your person happy.
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3. "You ain't got no distinction in Love"
If you have a partner. You're partner is your partner. Someone should be able to tell that that is your partner. You must by all means treat everyone you meet well,however,you must hold your man or lady in high esteem. Show him/her that she is special and to be special is to be like nothing else,treated like no one else. By doing such you would have made a significant dent in completely elimination feelings of insecurity your partner might feel based on your other relations. Don't make your sweetheart feel like they have to compete for your affection.
4. TRUST
Love is a beautiful thing but it is also a risk. When you love,your heart is leaning you in the direction of someone that you have discerned by your own reasoning to be worth it. You are making a choice to then give of what is necessary, to make it work. Trusting your partner makes all the difference in the world. When trust is broken-it can be a terribly painful thing..however,and this is another thing I always say..
"Better to have loved and lost,than never to have loved at all".
You need to give someone a chance to prove their love. Don't speak and assume the worst into your relationship before it even happens,for in you having thought it,you have already called it into existence.
Trust.Trust.Trust. By not trusting,you push your partner into the arms of what you're trying to nag them out of. If you get what I mean.
5. Stealing your partner's birthright of " Individuality"
The person you fell in love with was bred out of certain circumstances that, prior to your arrival,you were obviously,not a part of...(after all..you weren't there yet).Maybe you came in and had this whole "superhuman-Chris Brown ft Keri Hilson" effect. Maybe you "changed their whole life" for the better.That doesn't give you the right though to stifle your partner. Respect your person's space. Not wanting to spend every waking moment with you isn't a sign of "not loving you". It just means that this person would like some time to "marinate in their own juices"..Sometimes,your person just needs a little time to remember why they love you so much.
So, YUP.
Five of the biggest boo-boos People in Relationships make.I hope you enjoyed.
Soulfully x
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